
Today I opened my Facebook to see yet another Poll...this is so common with Facebook that you have to accept it as a way for people to express their identity and share themselves. One has to retreat from getting to emotionally involved because someone is going to disagree with you everyday pretty much. I am a Liberal Democrat living in a Conservative town, so I am a minority. Disagreement happens everyday. Most days I am really good at just letting this go by. Today is a different day: (As well as this poll I got a call from the Health Insurance Company's group "Americans for Solutions" a conservative group who wants to stop any govt. health care reform. They would prefer the Health Insurance Co. regulate themselves...that's turned out really good for the country so far.)
This poll is going around "Should people on Food Stamps/Welfare" be drug tested?
Everyone I have seen has said "Yes." At first I even thought "yeah probably," then in two seconds I was thinking "Who the hell are you lady? What have you done with my brain." Three of my friends have been pushed onto Food Stamps in order to feed their kids because of divorce. All three have been professionals or are professionals in their chosen field but can only work part time because they can't afford childcare full time. None of them are on drugs, except maybe the occasional Prozac (kidding.) Now how would I feel if I had to pee in a cup to pay for my kids food. Probably humiliated. The fact is a lot of people on drugs are probably on Food Stamps, and their kids probably are not on drugs!
What about probable cause? Should we blanket drug test people for being innocent? Or should the government say if you get arrested for drugs, or you are caught selling food stamps for drugs then we are going to test you? Then you should not receive them if you lose your kids are do not get into rehab.
* As an aside ( I have an adopted child who was in foster care, her mother was and is on drugs, she probably received food stamps, my daughter was often left without food to eat, this is one reason she was taken into foster care.)
Things change in your mind when you are affected by them or those you love are.
I was a recipient of Medicaid and WIC at one point in my early life, we had kids and we wanted to better ourselves by going to college. In order to do that we needed some assistance. It was so humiliating to use those vouchers in the store. If you had told me to pee for the vouchers I probably would have decided to forgo college and keep my husband working the $17,000 a year job, and our children s chances of getting out of Poverty would have been even worse, and so the cycle continues!
We are now middle to upper middle class and still struggle (we have four teens) but we don't need any assistance. We have private insurance, own a home, two cars (right now three, need to buy one?) an old boat and take vacations every three years. Our kids go to nice camps every summer. If you looked at me: a blond thirty eight year old mom, driving a nice Honda minivan, decently dressed, a husband who has a high ranking job at a college, you would never guess I needed government assistance as little as ten years ago.
Maybe there is no Democrat or Republican solution. It will have to be met with some thoughtfulness, humility, and honesty. Before you put out your opinion remember the very person reading your poll may be the last person you expect is on food stamps.